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Ask “What do you think?” first

Before you answer, ask for a guess. A child who has guessed is listening for whether they were right, and notices what surprised them.

In one study, children who made a prediction before seeing a science result learned more than children who did not (Theobald & Brod, 2021). A wrong guess is fine — the surprise is part of how it works. “I have no idea” is a guess too. What matters is that it comes before the answer.

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When is the best moment to ask a child what they think?

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