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Answer the why that was asked

Children keep asking when an answer does not answer. In one study, preschoolers asked again when they got a non-answer, and were more satisfied when they got a real explanation (Frazier, Gelman & Wellman, 2009).

A real answer gives a reason. It can be short. It can even be “I don’t know — let’s find out.” What does not work is a reply that closes the question without a reason: “because it is”, or praise for asking.

One question

A child asks, “Why is the sky blue?” Which reply answers the why that was asked?

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