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The Circle at Our Table

Six short lessons on the back-and-forth of play with a young child: notice what they open with, answer it at their size, wait, let them close it, mend it when it breaks, and stop while it is good. Practise with another grown-up first.

For grown-ups, from what PropTots teaches children at Spark & Anvil.

  1. Lesson 1Notice the opening
  2. Lesson 2Answer at their size
  3. Lesson 3Wait
  4. Lesson 4Let them close it
  5. Lesson 5Mend it when it breaks
  6. Lesson 6Stop while it is good
At the table · two grown-ups, before trying it with a child

Practise with another grown-up

You'll need: a cup, a spoon, or any small object.

  1. One of you is "the child": open with a small move, without words.
  2. The other answers at that size, then waits a full minute and a half in silence.
  3. Swap. Then talk about which part was hardest: noticing, answering small, or waiting.
  4. Try one circle with a child this week. Afterwards, use the Ride Home card for your own three questions.

Open Practise with another grown-up: run it, or print the seat sheets →

Print the guidebook (all lessons + the table activity) →